“Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.”
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“The more we witness our emotional reactions and understand how they work, the easier it is to refrain.”
“Often, the degree to which we oppose a thing marks the degree to which we don’t understand it.”
I sit here this morning at the dining room table wondering “what if” about a variety of subjects and how it would be “if”; but I dwell in the abstractions of life and see things perhaps in a different light than most, as has been apparent all my life in the fields I am part of: writing, acting, public speaking, the ministry (retired for the most part), baking, cooking, the arts in general.
The creativity we seek for moving forward to better living is an abstract, it is a cause that evolves in our mind as an idea to take action on and if we choose to follow that inspiration so be it.
Much of the way we seem to be living is by allowing the outside events to control and influence us to the point of upset, dismay, discontent and the like.
Life is always lived from within out. The outer life is a reflection of our inner convictions, beliefs, and concepts. Do unexpected things happen in our life, of course they do, we are part of this world and the unexpected does pop up, but is it really unexpected or is it a fear or thought that has been planted from years ago that is now coming into our life? Is it because we are part of other peoples lives who are experiencing life at their level of belief and causes us heartache or upset due to the love or caring we have for them? Is it because we need to learn something from this experience which will not only help us but others? Is it something about fear, say of moving forward or of grasping a new idea to lead us onward and upward, or, could it be the manifestation of our dissatisfaction with our job or our life in general that is causing us angst as a physical condition? “What if” it is?
“What if” you and I decided to take action, beginning in our mind-abstract thought-causation (all thought is abstract), to change/alter our response to a situation? What if” we did? Would we benefit from it? Yes. What would we learn from this new perspective? Perhaps it would be learning how to handle this type of situation without giving it power to upset us, maybe it would be a gaining a greater understanding of not only the situation and those involved but of ourselves as well. “What if” our thoughts are truly “things” in the invisible world of causation that when impressed on the receptive substance of the Universe takes form in our life according to that specific thought? Just, “what if?”
“What if” I or someone else told you, you have more power over your life than you currently think or believe and you actually believed it? What would you do to change the course of your life to make it better? What thoughts would you change permanently, or would you even be willing to give them up because you are more comfortable in the predictable outcomes. We have all been there. We are at times more comfortable with the uncomfortable and the predictable because it is known and the unknown can scare the Hades out of us. Been there and it is not fun, as you no doubt well know. “What if” we changed?
“What if” I told you that positive thinking is merely a beginning step to self-realization where in the understanding of the abstract brings forth the concrete, material, form of that knowing? “What if” you and I started today to take charge of our thinking, our beliefs and concepts concerning ourselves and our world of experience? “What if” it brought us the success we wanted in all areas of our life?
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We have all encountered times when there is a need to talk to someone about something. We just need an ear for someone to listen to us…but we may encounter interruptions, interjections and unsolicited advice. When this happens in our time of need we can be devastated, upset, frustrated, or just numb at the insensitivity of the person we chose to listen to the situation that is causing internal conflict.
This is not the only time we may meet with this non-listening situation…it can happen anywhere; a store employee, cashier, waiter/waitress, friend, family member, co-worker, boss, etc. It can be very frustrating when this occurs and may irk us a bit, that, not only is the person not listening they do not understand what it is we are conveying to them concerning… There are times we just want to scream, “Listen to what I am saying!”
The important part of any relationship; be it with ourselves, a loved one, a temporary encounter, or permanent relationship, is listening to what is being said and allowing the other person the courtesy of listening without coloring the thoughts being presented with any of our own prejudices or beliefs.
Listening is an art. When we can listen to someone without forming judgments or trying to influence them with what we believe they should do we have begun to master the art of listening.
A key to moving ahead in life is listening. Listening to our self-talk, and taking corrective measures when we are putting ourselves down, doubting our abilities and our talents, giving power to a fear by repetition of a phrase and what we say about ourselves in conversations with others is vital to improving our life. As we listen to ourselves there has to be no judgment but realization of a specific area of our life that we need to improve. If we call ourselves, “stupid, idiot” or other derogatory names time to stop and take control of how we relate to our-self. Taking stock in our positives life improves in bits and pieces and grows into leaps and bounds. Take time to stop and listen to all conversations, with yourself and others, you will be surprised what you learn.
In the meantime, affirm your great qualities and abilities to achieve to whatever level in life you so choose. Listen and listen well for this will take you further than you can ever imagine.
I hear you and I am listening!