One of the parts I discuss when presenting talks on success is, “We can only receive into our life what we see ourselves receiving.” If we are not liking what we see in our life experience it is time to change our perception of self and situations. Life can only mirror back to us what we believe and accept as true about self and our world of experience, whether it is true or not. Just some basics to think about.
In order to live life richly and lavishly you must treat yourself to living life and think in a positive and prosperous manner about yourself and your life. What you see (visualize) and what you believe is what you get.