Life is easy, but we tend to complicate it with our fears, negative emotions, anger, upset and at times a not so great overall view of life. My advice, “Stop making life so difficult.” The sooner we can get past the gunky thinking, (that which clogs and stops up creativity and the flow of good into our life), the sooner we begin to realize improvement and a sense of joy in achieving and being.
Understanding the law of cause and effect and taking responsibility for our thoughts and life are essential first steps in success.
Over the years I have been asked to, “Fix me but don’t change me.” Talk about an impossibility! My response was, “I can’t fix you but I can help you change, if you want.” If a person is unwilling to change the causation of their undesired experiences there are no band-aid remedies that will make it go away or patch it up like new—not even duct tape will help.
Life is what we make it, good, bad, indifferent, difficult, easy, sad or happy, it is up to us get our buns in gear and move up and out of mediocrity to phenomenal.
If you want to participate in life so be it but if not…well, just keep it to yourself; don’t continue to spew negatives about what others are doing, their dreams or goals. We have all met people who like to pontificate on all subjects, like to tell people what to do and how to do, all the while their life is so messed up that it is unbelievable, it gets tiresome after a while, perhaps we feel sorry for them. The amazing thing is, when help is offered their fear appears and causes them to run from the offer with a variety of excuses and continue their mere existence with the same hurt, tears, anger and upset not only at themselves and others, but the world. Eventually, when they tire of their situation, they will ask for help to the outstretched hand of the one who previously offered. This is where you and others of the same positive mindset become the example, the teacher, the storyteller, the healer, the motivator, the friend.
You are the most important thing you can give to the world. Smile, take life by the hand and show it what you want with focus, determination, knowing and authority. Life will then become that which you have shown it.